6 Ways To Know If Your Partner Is Cheating Online
I received a message from anonymous who is wondering if her man is cheating online. She stated that he refuses to add her on Facebook. He claims that he has blocked her because he doesn’t want to deal with the drama. In my mind, I’m like really. That was a side note. They have been together for 2 years, but it appears that he has one foot in the door and one foot out, holding the door open. I’m sure while reading this you will have your own thoughts about this as well. Please feel free to share your comments after reading.
There seems to be a vast number of people who are now cheating online. Unfortunately, because their partners refuse to snoop, they are caught off guard and completely oblivious to most of it. So, how do you know if the person you love is having an online affair? Here are what I call a few indicators or perhaps a better word is ‘Red Flags.’
#1 They block you from their pages
It is one thing for the one you love not to accept your requests on their pages, but it is another for them to block you completely. If your love believes it will create drama by you having access, it is probably because of the people he/she is entertaining. You should be privy to their pages and he/she should be privy to yours. If there is nothing to hide, why hide it?
#2 They are constantly online when you are apart and together
What’s the point here? They spend more time online than they do with you. In fact, even when you are together, he/she is still ‘online.’ Of course, I understand they may be running a business online. However, when he/she is with you, they must be willing to put the business on hold until another time. If he/she refuses to do this, it clearly shows you are not a priority. This could definitely make you wonder if there is someone else.
#3 It is a Secret
If he/she is sneaky with it – Closing the laptop when you come around, quickly exiting out of the applications, deleting the cache/history, that my friend is more than suspect. Sneaky people can never be trusted because you don’t know when they are telling a lie or the truth.
#4 They password protect EVERYTHING!
I get it. We live in a time where you have this to protect your privacy just in case you lose your device. However, when the one you love is password protecting it from you, then we have a problem. Without trust, there is no real relationship. Again, what are they hiding … from you?
#5 They have multiple accounts on the same site.
This is one of those things that makes you go hmmmmmmmmm. Why oh why? More than likely, you are dealing with someone who has multiple personalities or someone who’s clearly hiding something. I use to work with teens and this was by far their greatest strategy. You could be whoever you wanted to be depending on the login. Yes, if you give your partner the benefit of the doubt, it very well could be that he/she needed to start over with a fresh new profile. However, that should also mean ‘deleting’ the old one. I’m just saying.
#6 Their behavior has changed
This one is probably a true giveaway. When they become very distant, spends little to no time with you, they have become confrontational, critical, and uninterested in the things that interest you, there’s a good chance they are entertaining someone else.
Now, I’m not suggesting that you snoop around or be a private investigator. However, what I am suggesting that you open your eyes and see the red flags. If he/she is not cheating, you still have some real problems with these kind of things happening.
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