The CVD Blog
God is not going to bend his word to cater to your chaos. Whatever you are craving needs to be matched up against God’s word and principles. Lack of intimacy with God and ignorance of the word of God is a sure way to end up in a dead-end relationship.
We have to get to a place in God where we are so full in him that he is all that we are longing for and need. Yes, it is true that He knows the desires of our hearts and wants to fulfill them. But are you patient enough to wait for that which he wants to give?
If you earned someone’s love because you cook great meals, look good, keep your body tight, take the person on lavish trips, and spoil them, they will likely lose that “love” for you once you no longer have those things to offer.
I wrote this as an example of the mindset each of us should have while we’re in our season of waiting. Hope it blesses you as it blessed me to write it. I pray it produces a resolved in both and put our hearts at rest. May it be your letter to your future spouse as well. 🙂
As much as we are enamored by beauty and have great appetites for sex, when seeking out a wife, it’s unreasonable to think that those things alone will produce a happy and successful marriage.
I fell in love with the first boy I ever dated and then I fell into the bed with him. The next thing I knew is I was five months pregnant at twenty years old and standing in my pastor’s office saying “I do” to someone that I should have been saying “I don’t” to!