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10 Things You Must Know About A Matured, Purposed-Driven Man
1. If he’s pursuing you, it’s because he sees wife material in you. He’s looking for a wife – not a girlfriend, a jump off or a best friend. Those days are over.
2. He doesn’t play games. Sure, he may have had his share in the past, but those days are long gone too. He’s very clear about who he is and what he wants.
3. He’s concerned about security. Financial security means a lot to him. He carries a deep burden within to ensure he’s able to meet all present and future financial obligations.
4. He’s decisive. He doesn’t entertain or pursue multiple options at the same time. He makes a decision and goes for it – even if it turns out to be a wrong decision.
Mistaken Identity
I have to keep writing on this subject because some people still just don’t get it. I’ve watched countless social media posts where people have ‘expressed themselves’ about who they are and what they know they deserve. And then a few days later, I see conflicting reports in their statuses and pictures. One day Jekyll and the next day Hyde.
True – no one is perfect and we’re all prone to make mistakes. However, a mistake is not an intentional act – especially when it’s three days in a row. Listen, if you want to be respected, the first step is showing that you respect yourself. Just as the ole’ saying of, you are what you eat – well, you also attract what you project.
“Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater?”
I’m sure most of you have heard – if not, have quoted before, “Once a cheater, Always a cheater!” In a natural sense, I suppose there is some validity to this when you consider the number of people you personally know who’ve done it repeatedly.
However, I’d like to address this from a different angle. Shall I pose a few questions to you?
Is there anything too hard for God to change or undo?
Was God able to change you?
It may not have been cheating, but were there any habits in your life that others thought you’d NEVER let go that God delivered you from?
First Impression Tips For Men
As one person put it, ‘the first impression sets the tone and everything rises and falls on it.’ It seems clear the first impressions are the most important ones. I solicited the responses of both genders on our Facebook page to give the opposite sex a few tips on appearances and on how to approach each other. Please take a look at some of the great points given by note 🙂
• Please – absolutely no sexual comments at all when you first meet us.
• Take your hat off in a restaurant; eat with your mouth closed; don’t spit.
• You have to do the best with what you’re naturally given. You don’t have to have a million dollars. You don’t have to be a model. You don’t need to be a known entertainer. Just be the best you. That’s attractive.
• Be a man of God. That’s worth more than it’s weight on gold.
Your Relationship Vs Social Media
An Anonymous person asked this question… ‘If a couple is dating for six months or so, should there be an issue if they are not FB friends?’ This leads me to another question … What role does social media play in relationships – small, big or no real role at all? Actually BIG Role these days. If both are actively engaged on Facebook , I cannot see a reason why they shouldn’t also be on each other’s friends list too …. unless of course, someone is trying to hide something. What I’ve discovered is that you can learn a WHOLE LOT about a person through their interactions with others.
CVD – Thank You!
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