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True Love

True Love

Everyone longs to give themselves completely to someone, to have a deep soul relationship with another, to be loved thoroughly, and exclusively. But to a Christian, God says, “ No, not until you are fulfilled and content with being loved by Me alone, with giving yourself totally and unreservedly to Me, with having an intensely personal and unique relationship with Me, discovering that only in Me is your satisfaction to be found, will you be capable of the perfect human relationship that I have planned for you.

Questions For Your Potential

A short while ago I asked everyone to respond with their top 3 questions to ask a potential. Here’s a list of the top answers listed in order of the Most Mentioned first. Feel free to use some of these in your quest. …
3 – Do you want/have children – How many?
4 – What do you do for a living?
5 – What is your relationship status – Single/Married/Separated?
6 – What are your Vision/Goals in Life?

Court Me – Don’t Date Me

Court Me – Don’t Date Me

From a Biblical point of view, marriage is the central focus of relationships – not simply finding someone to hang out with. In its intent, courtship closely aligns with the biblical model and that is a husband/wife/family. In regards to agape (real God kind of unselfish love), by all means, this type of love should be a part of the Courtship Process. Dating does no justice to this kind of love.

6 Tips For The Singles Ladies

6 Tips For The Singles Ladies

Be Yourself. I understand that most people will put their best foot forward when meeting someone of interest. That’s perfectly understandable. However, please never stop being you. If you don’t like something, you don’t like it. If you cannot tolerate something, don’t tolerate it. You must understand that you are “just right” the way you are for the “right person.”

CVD’s Facebookers: 36 Lessons of Love

CVD’s Facebookers: 36 Lessons of Love

Stop trying to change folks! And know that there’s more than one way to skin a cat… 2+7=9, 5+4=9, 8+1= 9 and 6+3=9 … Respect the opinions of your mate. You don’t necessarily have to agree with their opinion, but respect the fact that they too have an opinion.

Ripping of The Soul

Ripping of The Soul

By the way, Sex is a divine mechanism that binds two people together as one. Once this happens, whenever there is a breakup, it cannot happen without a ripping of one’s soul. It hurt folks! This is why some people break up and make up – then break up and make up – then break up and make up again. Trust me when I tell you, it’s not all about love. I don’t have time here to explain it, but this is why it’s so difficult to part from relationships you KNOW aren’t any good for you – yet everything in you wants to.