Let’s get ahold of our emotions! Never allow yourself to become VULNERABLE or snared by someone who has not established a true level of commitment. To be fair, it’s not always your fault if you’ve found you in these shoes. Sometimes it’s the irresponsibility of others. Unfortunately, there are deceptive people out there who will do all they can to provoke certain feelings inside of you – feelings that will make you believe a closeness that doesn’t exist.