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7 Ways to know you’re in a relationship with a Godly Woman
#4 She won’t pressure you to have sex before saying ‘I do.’
While it may be true that men tend to be more focused on this area, there are a great number of women who are too. Through prayer, a Godly woman manages both her emotions and sexual desires well. She doesn’t need to test out the equipment to ensure it works to her satisfaction before saying ‘I do.’ Purity comes at a cost, but it’s a price she’s willing to pay. She trusts God that the benefits of waiting will be well worth it.
7 Ways to know you’re in a relationship with a Godly Man
#4 He won’t pressure you to have sex before saying ‘I do.’
He will not pressure, coerce beg, tempt or make you feel guilty about not giving him any. He protects you in this most sacred area you’ve both vowed to keep holy until marriage. For him, patience really is a virtue. He is willing to forgo a moment of pleasure for a lifetime of it later.
5 Ways To Know If You’re With Mr. Right
Someone asked the question “How do I know that I’m with the right man?” I thought it was a great question to ask. As I proceed to answer, I want to first say that finding Mr. Right should not be confused with finding Mr. Perfect. There is no perfect person. In fact, I’ve always been told that even if he or she was perfect they would become tainted by our imperfections.
You’re Just Right – For The Right Person
Here are a few questions to ponder today. How you answer them will tell you a lot about the person you are and the person you’ve possibly become in your relationship.
– Has the relationship made it easy for me to return to my old bad habits?
– Have I pulled away from the people who care the most for me?
– Is the only person’s opinion that truly matter now is the person I’m with?
– Has my dressing become immensely more provocative or the other extreme?
– Is every social media post I put up now, directly or indirectly, about him/her?
– Would I feel just as accepted by him/her if I didn’t do all the add-ons, spent money, or changed my behavior?
10 Things You Must Know About A Matured, Purposed-Driven Man
1. If he’s pursuing you, it’s because he sees wife material in you. He’s looking for a wife – not a girlfriend, a jump off or a best friend. Those days are over.
2. He doesn’t play games. Sure, he may have had his share in the past, but those days are long gone too. He’s very clear about who he is and what he wants.
3. He’s concerned about security. Financial security means a lot to him. He carries a deep burden within to ensure he’s able to meet all present and future financial obligations.
4. He’s decisive. He doesn’t entertain or pursue multiple options at the same time. He makes a decision and goes for it – even if it turns out to be a wrong decision.
Mistaken Identity
I have to keep writing on this subject because some people still just don’t get it. I’ve watched countless social media posts where people have ‘expressed themselves’ about who they are and what they know they deserve. And then a few days later, I see conflicting reports in their statuses and pictures. One day Jekyll and the next day Hyde.
True – no one is perfect and we’re all prone to make mistakes. However, a mistake is not an intentional act – especially when it’s three days in a row. Listen, if you want to be respected, the first step is showing that you respect yourself. Just as the ole’ saying of, you are what you eat – well, you also attract what you project.
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