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Courtship The 21st Century Process
Rickey’s Latest Book!
Courtship is designed for the marriage-minded person and this book gives a modern twist to the old ways – “vintage” made new. It offers a serious approach to a God-centered relationship with practical, 21st-century advice.
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Real Committment
There is no courtship without intentionality and commitment. If you are not ready to truly commit to a lasting relationship, you are not ready to court. While in dating, a person may string you along for years with empty promises and no assurance, courtship requires true commitment from each person. Commitment in courtship is your dedication, faithfulness, and loyalty to the decision that you have made to the other person.
More Security
Proper courtship fortifies trust, relieves insecurities, and focuses attention on serving each other. Courtship stands guard over the relationship and protects the heart and the vulnerabilities of your mate. The security creates a safe environment through consistency which allows the couple to genuinely get to know one another.
Accountability
Accountability is the obligation or willingness to accept responsibility for one’s actions. For accountability in a relationship to work, both partners must be vulnerable, honest, trusting, and transparent. In courtship, there are two forms of accountability, external and internal. External: This is typically established between close friends, mentors, or spiritual leaders. Internal: This is the most important accountability relationship to establish between the courting couple.
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Rickey Macklin taught on Courtship vs. Dating…..WOW!!!!! All I can say is Randolph Potter I love you soooo much! You did NOT date me, you COURTED me, cultivated & built a friendship w/me, you sought to marry me instead of casually date me, you found value and purpose in who I was and developed a vision for our future. You did not rush me to the altar. I was NOT a sexual object for you but a gift from God that you waited for until marriage. Thank you Rickey Macklin for your ministry. EVERY SINGLE PERSON NEEDS TO HEAR THIS!
We both agreed to take to the Courtship vs. Dating class to gain greater insight on the courtship process before getting married. Even though we both knew we were for each other, the class taught us what was required of both the man and the woman. As a result of the class, we both agreed to separate ourselves for a time to fast and pray for clarity from God. In 2015, we will be celebrating 8yrs of marriage. The Courtship vs. Dating classes is a must for all Christian singles and Christian couples who are seeking biblical principles to follow in a godly relationship.Recent Blog Posts
First Impression Tips For Men
As one person put it, ‘the first impression sets the tone and everything rises and falls on it.’ It seems clear the first impressions are the most important ones. I solicited the responses of both genders on our Facebook page to give the opposite sex a few tips on appearances and on how to approach each other. Please take a look at some of the great points given by note 🙂
• Please – absolutely no sexual comments at all when you first meet us.
• Take your hat off in a restaurant; eat with your mouth closed; don’t spit.
• You have to do the best with what you’re naturally given. You don’t have to have a million dollars. You don’t have to be a model. You don’t need to be a known entertainer. Just be the best you. That’s attractive.
• Be a man of God. That’s worth more than it’s weight on gold.
Your Relationship Vs Social Media
An Anonymous person asked this question… ‘If a couple is dating for six months or so, should there be an issue if they are not FB friends?’ This leads me to another question … What role does social media play in relationships – small, big or no real role at all? Actually BIG Role these days. If both are actively engaged on Facebook , I cannot see a reason why they shouldn’t also be on each other’s friends list too …. unless of course, someone is trying to hide something. What I’ve discovered is that you can learn a WHOLE LOT about a person through their interactions with others.
CVD – Thank You!
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