7 Ways to know you’re in a relationship with a Godly Man
#1 He is clear about the vision and direction of the relationship.
Godly men don’t play games with your emotions. As clear as he was about initiating the relationship, he will be equally as clear about the direction of the relationship too. He leaves no room for guessing and assuming.
#2 He prays with you and for you.
He’s a man of faith and understands the significance of how prayer works. Not only does he encourages you, but also prays with and for you with anticipation of great results.
#3 He refuses to play house and live with you.
For him, no one is moving in until after the wedding ceremony. He’s a firm believer in avoiding even the appearance of evil. He chooses rather to maintain a life of integrity and character. Mantra here: Why play house when you can do real house later.
#4 He won’t pressure you to have sex before saying ‘I do.’
He will not pressure, coerce, beg, tempt or make you feel guilty about not giving him any. He protects you in this most sacred area you’ve both vowed to keep holy until marriage. For him, patience really is a virtue. He is willing to forgo a moment of pleasure for a lifetime of it later.
#5 He won’t degrade, belittle or use foul language towards you, around you or at you.
He honors and respects you. He esteems you highly. He understands the power of his words. Once spoken, they can never be retracted. Instead of cursing you, he blesses you. Instead of knocking you down, he builds you up. Instead of letting you deal with hard times alone, he comforts you.
#6 He puts God before you.
He doesn’t have a problem with priority. As much as he loves you, he loves God more. No amount of tears or manipulations can ever change that. When what you want contradicts what God has said, without question, he sticks to what God has said.
#7 He loves you unconditionally.
Life has its challenges. Some of those challenges are more defining than others. However, his love for you is unhindered by them all. The love he has for you goes deep down to the core of who you are and not his expectations of what you can become. Circumstances, hard times, nor tragedies will ever change that. This man loves you unconditionally.
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